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Relaxation Techniques: Learn How to Manage Stress

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Relaxation Techniques: Learn How to Manage Stress

Relaxation Techniques Overwhelming stress has unfortunately become a predominant characteristic of contemporary life. When your mind is under stress for a long period of time, it produces some stress hormones. In this state, the heart rate increases, respiration becomes rapid and shallow; there is a rise in blood pressure, and the brain moves into a primitive “survival” mode, suppressing normal thought functions (evaluation, planning, deciding, encoding, memory, etc.).

As a result, sometimes we react rather than being able to evaluate and plan a response to the stressor. Prolonged stress can be exhausting and can contribute to the development of disorders, such as chronic high blood pressure, heart disease/stroke, and increased risk of anxiety/depression.

About Relaxation Techniques

Practically speaking, it’s not possible to avoid all sources of stress in our lives. But we can develop healthier ways of responding to them. When stressors throw your nervous system out of balance, relaxation techniques can bring it back into a balanced state by producing a relaxation response, a state of deep calmness that is the polar opposite of the stress response.

For many people, de-stressing activities may mean slouching in front of the television, having a glass of alcohol, reading a book, or surfing the Internet. All these activities may provide you with a sense of temporary relaxation, but contribute very little to reducing the damaging effects of stress.

To effectively combat stress, we need to activate the body’s natural relaxation response. Fitting these activities into your life can help reduce everyday stress and boost your mood.

Producing the Relaxation Response

Relaxation is more than a state of mind; it physically changes the way your body functions. When your body is relaxed, breathing slows, blood pressure and oxygen consumption decrease, and some people report an increased sense of well-being. This is called the “relaxation response.”

Being able to produce such responses using relaxation techniques may counteract the effects of long-term stress. This kind of stress may contribute to or worsen a range of health problems, including depression, digestive disorders, headaches, high blood pressure, and insomnia.

Relaxation techniques often combine breathing and focused attention to calm the mind and the body. Most methods require only brief instructions from a reliable source or experienced practitioner before they can be done without assistance. These techniques may be most effective when practiced regularly and combined with good nutrition, regular exercise, and a strong social support system.

To Get Started

  • Find a quiet, relaxing place, where you will be alone for 10-20 minutes to do these exercises. The techniques work best if there are no distractions.
  • Practice once or twice a day.
  • Stick with the technique that works best for you. Not every technique will work for every person.
  • Keep trying. Don’t worry if you don’t notice a major change immediately. You may need to practice for a few weeks before you begin to feel the benefits.
  • Try one or more of the techniques described below.

Types of Relaxation Techniques

Relaxation Technique 1:

Relaxed Breathing for Stress Relief

Practice deep breathing at a regular time and in a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. Loosen or remove any tight clothes you have on, such as jeans or jackets and remove your shoes. Make yourself feel completely comfortable.

Sit comfortably on a chair, which supports your head, or lie on the floor or bed. Place your arms on the chair arms, flat on the floor or bed, a little bit away from the side of your body with palms up. If you’re lying down, stretch out your legs, keeping them hip-width apart or slightly wider. If you’re sitting in a chair, don’t cross your legs.

Good relaxation always starts with focusing on your breathing. Start with breathing in and out slowly in a regular rhythm as this will help you to calm down.

  • Fill up the whole of your lungs with air, without forcing. Imagine you’re filling up a bottle so that your lungs fill from the bottom.
  • Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.
  • Breathe in slowly and regularly counting from one to five (don’t worry if you can’t reach five at first).
  • Then let the breath escape slowly, counting from one to five.
  • Keep doing this until you feel calm. Breathe without pausing or holding your breath.

Practice this relaxed breathing for three to five minutes, two to three times a day (or whenever you feel stressed).

Relaxation Technique 2:

Progressive Muscle Relaxation for Stress Relief

This relaxation technique involves a two-step process in which you systematically tense and relaxes different muscle groups in the body. You can combine deep breathing with progressive muscle relaxation for an additional level of stress relief.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation:

A Step-Wise Approach

Most progressive muscle relaxation practitioners start at the feet and work their way up to the face. For a sequence of muscle groups to follow, you may follow the instructions given below:

  • Loosen your clothing, take off your shoes, and get comfortable.
  • Take a few minutes to relax, breathing in and out in slow, deep breaths.
  • When you’re relaxed and ready to start, shift your attention to your right foot. Take a moment to focus on the way it feels.
  • Slowly tense the muscles in your right foot, squeezing as tightly as you can. Hold for a count of 10.
  • Relax your right foot. Focus on the tension flowing away and the way your foot feels as it becomes limp and loose.
  • Stay in this relaxed state for a moment, breathing deeply and slowly.
  • When you’re ready, shift your attention to your left foot. Follow the same sequence of muscle tension and release.
  • Move up slowly through your body, contracting and relaxing the muscle groups as you go.
  • It may take some practice at first, but try not to tense muscles other than those intended.

Relaxation Technique 3:

Visualization/Guided Imagery

Visualization or guided imagery is a variation of traditional meditation that requires you to employ not only your visual sense, but also your sense of taste, touch, smell, and sound. When used as a relaxation technique, visualization involves imagining a scene in which you feel at peace and free to let go of all tension and anxiety.

Choose whatever setting is most calming to you; whether it’s a tropical beach, a favorite childhood spot, or a quiet wooded glen. You can do this visualization exercise on your own in silence while listening to soothing music, or with a therapist (or an audio recording of a therapist) guiding you through the imagery.

Don’t worry if you sometimes zone out or lose track of where you are during a guided imagery session. This is normal. You may also experience feelings of stiffness or heaviness in your limbs, minor, involuntary muscle movements, or even cough or yawn. Again, these are normal responses.

Guide to Practice Visualization

  • Lie on your back or sit comfortably with your eyes closed.
  • Start out with a simple check-in of your emotional state, your thoughts, and what you are feeling in your body. Just notice what’s happening, without judgment or expectation.
  • Imagine yourself in a favorite, peaceful place. The place may be on a sunny beach with the ocean breezes caressing you, swinging in a hammock in the mountains, or in your own backyard. Any place that you find peaceful and relaxing is good.
  • Let your breath deepen, and locate a spot in your body where you are starting to feel an opening and lightness. Allow that to expand with every in-breath and every out-breath, imagining it gradually filling up your entire body.
  • Imagine this relaxing energy moving through your body in waves, reaching every part of you.
  • Enjoy the feeling of deep relaxation that envelopes you as you slowly explore your restful place. When you are ready, gently open your eyes and come back to the present.
  • Don’t worry if you sometimes zone out or lose track of where you are during a guided imagery session. This is normal. You may also experience feelings of stiffness or heaviness in your limbs, minor, involuntary muscle movements, or even cough or yawn. Again, these are normal responses.

Relaxation Technique 4:

Mindfulness for Stress Relief

Mindfulness relaxation can be experienced when one is fully aware of the present moment. Thinking about the past and blaming and judging yourself, or worrying about the future, can often lead to a degree of stress that is overwhelming.

By mindfulness, one can practice staying calm and focused in the present moment, which can help bring the nervous system back into balance. Mindfulness can be applied to activities, such as walking, exercising, eating, or meditation.

Practicing Mindfulness Meditation

Key points in mindfulness meditation are:

A quiet environment: 

  • Choose a secluded place in your home, office, garden, place of worship, or in the great outdoors where you can relax without distractions or interruptions.

A comfortable position:

  •  Get comfortable, but avoid lying down as this may lead to you falling asleep. Sit up with your spine straight, either in a chair or on the floor. You can also try a cross-legged or lotus position.

A point of focus:

  • This point can be internal – a feeling or imaginary scene, or something external – a flame or meaningful word or phrase that you repeat throughout your session. You may meditate with your eyes open or closed. Also, choose to focus on an object in your surroundings to enhance your concentration, or alternately, you can close your eyes.

An observant, noncritical attitude: 

  • Don’t worry about distracting thoughts that go through your mind or about how well you’re doing. If thoughts intrude during your relaxation session, don’t fight them. Instead, gently turn your attention back to your point of focus.

Training, Licensing, and Certification

There is no formal credential or license required for practicing or teaching most relaxation techniques. However, the techniques may be used or taught by licensed professionals, including physicians, recreational therapists, and psychologists.

If You Are Thinking About Using Relaxation Techniques for Health

  • Do not use relaxation techniques to replace conventional care or to postpone seeing a health care provider about a medical problem.
  • Ask about the training and experience of the practitioner or instructor you are considering for any complementary health approach.
  • Look for published research studies on relaxation for the health condition in which you are interested. Remember that some claims for using relaxation therapies may exceed the available scientific evidence.
  • Tell all your healthcare providers about any complementary health approaches you use. Give them a full picture of what you do to manage your health. This will help ensure coordinated and safe care.


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