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Caring for Alzheimer’s Patient

Caring for Alzheimer’s Patient


He takes the bike himself to the beach and asks people who got it there? He bends down from the fourth floor balcony and yells at children playing in the park. I am so tired of being around him all the time,” complained my friend,frustrated, stressed out and irritated.

Are you thinking my friend is describing some tantrums thrown by a child? Well no, this is an unusually changed behavior of a 70 something man.

Felix is an intelligent and highly qualified person who spent more than 40 years of his life building up the family business. He did achieve great success in career, but failed to live a healthy life. Mind that is under constant work pressure, busy schedules allowing little or no time for exercise, smoking, drinking and eating unhealthy food, all of which eventually started taking a toll on his health. Are these the risk factors for Alzheimer’s Disease (AD)?

Today, he cannot remember some of the incidences that happened few hours ago. He calls his sister by some other name and cannot understand where to sign on his credit card bill. Are these the symptoms of AD? The family is having a difficult time accepting the fact that he is suffering from AD.

People suffering from AD often tend to have difficulties remembering things and also lose their ability to think. Those in the severe stage of the disease are totally dependent on others for simple activities of daily living (ADL). Dealing with and caring for someone with AD is difficult and stressful. However, love and support from family and loved ones can help them live a better, if not an absolutely normal life.

Let’s look at some practical problems you may face as a caregiver, and their solutions. The tips given here will be helpful while you continue to look after your loved one who is suffering from AD.


 A practical problem you may faceFrown

Solution for your problemSmile
They call you by some other name Don’t try to correct them. Rather, stay calm and listen to what they say
They don’t recognize their own children Try to show pictures and remind them of their loved ones
They stammer and take long time to recollect a word Be patient and give time. Do not speak to them in hurry

They get aggressive when you decide to give a bath

Plan to give a bath when the person is calm and non-aggressive. Keep talking to the person explaining  what you are doing

They spill the food while eating from a plate Use bowl as they are easier to handle
They stay awake till late night Create a quiet and pleasant atmosphere in the evening
You feel completely helpless

Reach out to some support groups and you may meet people with like situations

Ask for help from your  friends and other family members

You feel that care giving is becoming really  challenging and you cannot handle it anymore Take assistance from external support groups or move the patient  to  a long-term care  facility


Caring for your loved one with AD is not an easy task. You need to be patient and strong, as the person may slowly start getting totally dependent on you. The worry, fear, loneliness, and exhaustion may put you at stress and risk of suffering from depression. It is therefore important to educate yourself about the disease, its progression, symptoms, and treatment options, so that you get prepared for the new responsibilities that keep adding with each passing day.

You may want to get tips to cope up with specific symptoms appearing in different stages of AD and related problems.  

Empowering you to care for your loved ones

ICMH Editorial team


  1. Caregiver Guide: Tips for Caregivers of People with Alzheimer's Disease. Accessed October 23, 2013.
  2. Support for Alzheimer's and Dementia Caregivers. Accessed October 23, 2013.
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